Is America in a Romance Slump?

Finding a lasting relationship may be harder than ever, and it's a topic that's striking a chord with many people across the Coachella Valley.

During The Roggin Report, the conversation centered on a report from The Atlantic describing America as being in a "romance slump," with fewer people dating, fewer committed relationships and many singles feeling burned out by dating apps and rising costs. While people still want meaningful relationships, the report suggests building those connections has become increasingly difficult.

The discussion highlighted how those national trends are also being felt locally. Although the Coachella Valley is known for its active social scene and large retirement population, many residents say dating apps have made finding meaningful relationships more frustrating instead of easier.

Stephanie Greene said technology has dramatically changed the way people interact.

"We've gone into this digital world where we're not out just talking to random people all the time," Green said. "People seem to be looking for the perfect person, not the right person."

She noted that everyday opportunities to meet people naturally have become less common as more people spend time focused on their phones instead of engaging with those around them.

Tammy Bleck agreed, saying technology has created both opportunities and obstacles.

"Tech connects and it also isolates," Bleck said. "I don't think people know how to date anymore."

Bleck encouraged singles to focus on realistic expectations rather than searching for perfection, adding that simple, everyday interactions—meeting someone while grabbing coffee or browsing a bookstore—can still lead to meaningful relationships.

Greene also encouraged people to step away from their screens and spend more time in social settings.

"Get out there. Ask your friends to introduce you," she said. "That's how most relationships start."

For residents throughout Palm Springs and the Coachella Valley, the conversation reflects a growing concern that while technology has made it easier to meet people online, it may also be making genuine, face-to-face connections harder to build. As dating continues to evolve, both contributors agreed that putting down the phone and engaging with people in everyday life may still be one of the best ways to find lasting relationships.

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