Could finding love really come down to a spreadsheet? That's the question raised on The Roggin Report as a growing dating trend has singles organizing their romantic lives with charts, compatibility scores, conversation notes, and even red flags instead of simply following chemistry.
The trend comes as many people say modern dating has become exhausting. With endless dating apps and seemingly unlimited choices, some singles are turning to spreadsheets and specialized apps to help keep track of potential partners and determine who deserves another date.
Here in the Coachella Valley, where dating apps have become a common way to meet people, the idea sparked plenty of debate. Some see it as a practical way to cut through the noise and stay organized, while others believe romance shouldn't be managed like a business project.
Contributor Jim Walker wasn't buying it.
"Oh my gosh, this is ridiculous," Walker said. "There is nothing romantic about this. These people that have these long lists of requirements for a partner before they'll even go on a date... It's okay to have some likes and dislikes, but come on, a spreadsheet, no way."
Nick Collins saw things differently, arguing that a little organization doesn't necessarily hurt.
"If I got to write it down and I'm getting organized, you can't be holding that against me," Collins joked. "I'm trying to find my mate."
The discussion also touched on whether data can really measure chemistry. Collins suggested common interests and compatibility matter, while Tim O'Brien pointed out that no spreadsheet can predict what happens once two people actually meet face-to-face.
The broader takeaway is that while technology may help people stay organized, relationships still depend on real conversations, shared experiences, and a willingness to put in the work. As dating continues to evolve, the biggest question may not be whether someone checks every box on a spreadsheet—but whether there's a genuine connection once the phones are put away.
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By: NBC Palm Springs
August 6, 2026
